Everyone has pet peeves right? A few of mine are: when I am talking, you interrupt with saying the exact same thing I was saying. Breathing on me...(strangely there was an exception to that...) My newest peeve is when someone assures you that they will tell you if something you do bothers them, and then they don't tell you until it's to the point where they are going to blow up. It makes me sad, because if I had known it was such a nuisance I definitely would have stopped.
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About a year ago people would tell me things like "Oh you are so lucky that you have never been in a relationship, you are smart. Trust me, you will agree with me when it finally does happen." Man, I never bought that. I thought it was way worse sitting on the outside watching and not knowing. Maybe the thought process was, "she's never been heart broken." Remember, you don't have to be dating to have your heart broken. Today being the person I am, with all the experiences I now have, I still think what I thought back then.
Tell everyone that you care about, that you do.
-Hot Donna.
This kinda seems like me and my roommate all year long. She watches MTV almost all the time, and I am sooooooo anti-reality television. What's sad is that it's my TV, I just never gathered the courage to tell her to turn it off more than half the time. It's too late in the year for me to do anything about it now, I just tend to leave the room. . . I need to be less passive about this kind of stuff -.-
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. I think sometimes we think it is more loving to just be "nice" and not tell someone what is bothering us. Often it's better, especially if it is someone who is close to you who you will be around, to be honest! Otherwise, the person who tried to be nice will end up being rude or mean or avoidant, and that's not so nice...
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